Most men feel that the only way to get their women submit to them is by treating them the hard way. This men believe that a woman should not be given much liberty. They shout her down. Limit their freedom and do all they can to kill her ethusiam, confidence and self esteem.
I call it the "choleric effect". The man chooses where the woman goes to, decides the friends she keeps, decides how much she can spend and even go as far as choosing when to make love.
The truth is that such men wont get anything good from such women. A woman whose happiness has been trampled upon will only give little. Women dont thrive in an environment where they are caged. They dont thrive in an environment where they cant express love.
The best way to get something out of a GOOD WOMAN is to love her without pressure. When you hurt her feelings, apologise and ensure that she forgives you. Most women can be sensitive and when you hit them below the belt, you may be losing the love and affection of someone who loves you deeply.
The good thing is that making amends after making mistakes can make a difference. No woman will refuse to forgive a man who shows genuine repentance. She will surely give you a second chance if you convince her that you are sorry for what you have done.
Men should create an environment to enable the woman in their lives to succeed. When a woman is happy, it reflects on the home. Everyone iss happy and that atmospher attracts GOD's blessings. A prayer from the lips of a happy woman gets to GOD and can acts as a pillar of support fro her man.
God designed her as a helpmate, but it is the duty of the man to create an environment for her to be able to fufill her role as a help mate to him.
Submitted by Ifeanyi